Mahjong for Beginners: Annika's Tips for Getting Started

Mahjong is one of those games that instantly draws people in. The intricate beauty of the pieces, the gentle clink as they meet, and the camaraderie around the table—it’s captivating. But if you’re new to mahjong, it’s important to know this: mahjong is not a “learn it in five minutes” kind of game. It’s rich, layered, and wonderfully complex. And that’s exactly what makes the journey so rewarding.

The first step in getting started is embracing that complexity. Mahjong has its own language, rules, patterns, and flow. From learning how to read the card to understanding hands, jokers, Charleston, and strategy, there’s a lot to absorb. Many beginners feel overwhelmed at first, and that’s completely normal. The key is not to rush the process or expect perfection early on.

Lessons are critical

Mahjong for beginners is where lessons become critical. While it’s tempting to jump straight into a game with friends or try to teach yourself from a book or app, structured lessons provide a foundation that saves time, frustration, and confusion. A good instructor will break the game down in a logical way, explain not just the “what” but the “why,” and help you build confidence from the very beginning. Lessons also ensure you’re learning correct rules and etiquette, which is essential for enjoying social play later on. 

Social play with the right community

Once you’ve learned the basics, the single most important thing you can do is play—often and socially. Mahjong is meant to be shared, and there is truly no substitute for time at the table. Social play reinforces what you’ve learned in lessons and helps everything click into place. You begin recognizing hands more quickly, understanding strategy more intuitively, and picking up tips simply by watching and listening to others.

Once you’ve learned the basics, the single most important thing you can do is play—often and socially. Mahjong is meant to be shared, and there is truly no substitute for time at the table. Social play reinforces what you’ve learned in lessons and helps everything click into place. You begin recognizing hands more quickly, understanding strategy more intuitively, and picking up tips simply by watching and listening to others.

For me, the real magic happened when I found my people—a beginner “newbie group” learning right alongside me (a big shoutout to my mama mahj girls!).

We were all at the same stage, equally curious and equally confused, and we played everywhere, every chance we could get. As our skills grew, so did our confidence—and just as importantly, our friendships. What started as casual games quickly turned into something more meaningful: shared wins, shared mistakes, inside jokes, and a genuine sense of connection that extended far beyond the table. 

Playing socially also takes the pressure off. Mahjong isn’t about winning every game; it’s about learning, laughing, and building relationships. Sitting at the table with supportive players creates a safe space to ask questions, make mistakes, and grow together. Every game adds another layer of understanding, and progress often comes in small but satisfying moments—when the card suddenly makes sense, or when you spot a hand on your own for the very first time. 

Give yourself grace

Finally, give yourself grace. Mahjong is a journey, not a destination, and mistakes are simply part of the learning process. I’ll never forget my first beginner mistakes at the table—and I’m so grateful for the gentle guidance and encouragement from friends who helped me learn along the way. Even seasoned players continue to refine their strategies and discover new nuances, and it’s the combination of quality lessons, supportive play, and time at the table that gradually turns confusion into confidence.

If you’re willing to be patient, curious, and committed, mahjong will reward you with far more than a game. It offers mental challenge, meaningful connection, and a seat at a table where learning never truly ends. 🀄️

Ready to play? Head to our Classes & Events page to sign up for bootcamp lessons or social play opportunities. We can’t wait to meet you at the table!